When our children lose their temper, yell, or frown, we get upset and react in a negative way. But did you know what is good for children to get angry? We are going to analyze the mechanism of anger and observe this situation from a different perspective, since it is a way of defending themselves against different attacks and with it our children learn and develop resistance to frustration.
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Being self-centered means that the person thinks only of himself and does not matter what others think or feel. But in the case of children it does not mean that it is egocentric (or selfish) simply that they are in an evolutionary stage in which they are the protagonists because they have not yet developed empathic thinking.
Fall, winter, spring or summer ... Any time of the year is good to teach children to create their little goals to improve themselves every day. Mini achievements that will make you happier and become a great person. And a process that also, as parents, we can learn to improve ourselves.
Have your children thrown a tantrum? Do you know what they are for and why it is good for children to have tantrums? Do you want to make them go down? In this post, you will understand why it is evolutionarily natural and inevitable, also why it is important for your children to throw tantrums on you and what questions to ask so that they can stop and think and have more self-control.
Fights and arguments between siblings are frequent, you know that well! One of them wants a toy and the other tries to keep it in his possession at all costs and that is where the discussion begins. What to do? Many times you stare without knowing if it is better to intervene or let them solve it on their own.
When children begin to speak it is a very fun and important stage in their development. They repeat everything they hear, phrases, words, expressions ... Many of them, in the mouth of a child, are very funny and funny ... until they say their first swear word! How do you react at this time?
All of us need other people as references throughout our lives, that is, people who in one way or another end up permeating and modifying our behaviors and attitudes. As we grow, our references change, and we choose those people who are role models for us, who transmit us attitudes and behaviors that we do not have but that we wish to incorporate.
Many dads wonder how they can teach or help children deal with anger, anger, or anger. The first thing we have to accept is that children, just like adults, get angry and enraged, but that, unlike adults, they do not always have tools to manage their emotions.
When our children lose their temper, yell, or frown, we get upset and react in a negative way. But did you know what is good for children to get angry? We are going to analyze the mechanism of anger and observe this situation from a different perspective, since it is a way of defending themselves against different attacks and with it our children learn and develop resistance to frustration.
If your little one is about to turn two years old, you should start preparing because tantrums come. And here there is no instruction manual or magic formula that will guarantee you success in fighting them, you must find your own way together! I've been through it too and that's why I want to share my mother tricks to fight childhood tantrums.
Officially it is already summer and not because the calendar says so but because the high temperatures have already warned us of it, and in what way! This means that our leisure is mainly based on riding a bicycle, spending the afternoons in the pool and cooling off with water pistols, something that can create some controversy.
Children throughout their development and, especially in the stages that range from 4 to 10 years old, increasingly acquire the fear of being abandoned or ignored. That is why little ones demand the attention of the adults around them when they feel that they are not receiving enough attention.
I fear that moment of coming home after work, because it is to open the door and find my other reality: my daughters playing on the dining room floor and all the toys scattered around every corner. But, good news, do you know why mothers should stop worrying that everything is thrown away and nothing is in its place?
One of the questions that parents ask ourselves the most, the unknown that always haunts our minds, the question for which we do not have our own answer is ... how does my son behave when I am not in front of him? And I think that no parent could say with 100 confidence what the conduct of their son or daughter is like in their absence.
The tantrums of the smallest of the house, what to say about them that we have not already said? They are a sign of the lack of tolerance for frustration, all children go through them to a greater or lesser extent and parents have many options and tools in our hands to help them and not make the situation even worse.
Surely you have ever heard the following phrases & 39; everything always goes wrong & 39 ;, & 39; and if in the end I fall & 39; or & 39; he must be sad because I'm sad & 39 ;. Well, these thoughts refer to what in emotional intelligence we call cognitive distortions.
Many parents cannot believe when the teacher or tutor says that their children do not almost get up from the table and have an almost exemplary behavior, when at home the opposite happens and they are all a toberllino and you have to be dealing with them all the time . Something similar happens when parents leave their children in the care of other relatives.
Can children hold a grudge? If something bothers you or makes you angry, can you remember it and act on this feeling for a long time? Grudge is a common emotion, both in children and in adults, however, many do not know how to understand and control it (not even when they are older).
Secrets are something that is not told, that we hide inside ourselves and that if they are shared, we will only do it with a small number of people who are highly trusted. Therefore, knowing that children have a hard time keeping secrets, parents stop sharing certain confidences with our children.