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What is intense interest in children


Since we are born, our desire to explore the world around us and to learn and control it arises. In general, there is a moment in children's childhood, specifically between the ages of 2 and 5, when they begin to transmit even more that desire to learn, it is what many call the "why stage".

However, this stage is not that it has appeared suddenly or randomly, it actually arises because, in general, it is at that time when they can verbally express what they are thinking more fluently, develop their imagination and the learning process It is very active. So, it is a key moment so that an intense interest in children can arise for an event that catches their attention and by being able to verbalize it, you are more aware of how important it is to your child.

Intense interests are called when your child is extremely curious to learn about one topic or multiple areas. As a father or mother, you realize that for your child each occasion is perfect for him to want to investigate and delve into the subject for which he has that special interest and ask or talk about the latest discoveries that he has found on his own, sometimes that motivation even seems like an "obsession" and for the rest it can be a bit heavy phase, since everything focuses on the same topic. The most common topics that usually attract them are:

  • Dinosaurs
  • Vehicles.
  • Science.
  • Nature.
  • Universe.

The problem with intense interest is that it will not always last for life. There are children who will only last a season and after a while they will lose that desire to learn and for others it is only the beginning of many years in which they will have a great motivation to expand the information and learn new concepts. For this reason, this intense motivation to learn has been closely related to gifted children or children diagnosed with Asperger's, however, it is not an exclusive indicator to make a diagnosis in either case.

Intense interest has multiple benefits for your child's cognitive and emotional development. On the one hand, it will help you to encourage more active learning and promote your knowledge and on the other hand, it can promote values ​​such as effort and perseverance. However, so much desire to learn can be difficult for the people around them to handle, so it is important that you keep in mind the following tips so that their curiosity does not fade over time:

- It is necessary to create spaces where you can learn about what interests you: it may be difficult for you to combine their interests with the academic content, but luckily, if you are attentive you can compensate with the internet, documentaries, museums, extra activities, talks or workshops that focus on that topic about which your child wants to learn . It is essential not to curb your desire to learn.

- Give him time a day so that he can talk as much as he wants on that topic. That way you will avoid spending too much time talking about the subject and you will not lose patience and you will be able to give it your full attention and at the same time, your child will feel valued and supported because he will be able to talk to you. Another advantage is that you will get:

- Promote spaces to talk about it and that your child understands that not all times or places are right.

- Encourage learning on other issues.

- Improve your social skills and develop empathy.

Don't downplay their intense interests, just because they are not the same as yours or you do not know about the subject: if you do not know about the subject, perhaps it could be an opportunity to strengthen ties with your child and discover news on that subject together or even learn new information on your own that interest you. Nothing unites more than sharing experiences, but your child does not always have to conform to your tastes. So become his ally to learn and not someone who is going to demoralize him.

- Strengthens your self-esteem: After talking so much about the same topic, our verbal or non-verbal language gives us away and your child perceives that others are not interested or are being annoying. You cannot control how others behave, but you can improve what provokes you, what you say or how your child may feel about it, since it is likely that social pressure will get him to put aside intense interests your child has.

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